One couple found they were not able to do it. They tried again and again, but always ended up feeling angry or having some other bad feeling. Finally, they decided to hold ‘issue’ discussions by email. Whenever one of
them wanted to start an issue discussion that might lead to a fight, he or she would [...]

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Positive marriage conflict sounds impossible. Conflict suggests battles, fights, disputes, and differences of opinion. How can you have conflict that’s positive  ? The Gottman research tells us how. Here is the secret: Start and end any ‘issue’ discussion on a positive note. When you do that, you have positive marriage conflict.
You only fight about resolvable [...]

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We suggest that you simply accept that you and your lover have an issue that cannot and will not be resolved. Here are some helpful tips  :
1.  Agree To Disagree.
Clear the air with your partner. Explain that you now realize that the two ofyou have one of those circle dances going and that it is [...]

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You’ll minimize anger in a relationship if you spot the obvious irresolvable issues before you marry. If you don’t think you could ever accept an issue, don’t get married. If, however, you know the issue faces you and you choose to marry in spite of it then the only reasonable solution is to accept it, [...]

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With Patty and Steve, the circle dance was about money: how much to spend and how much to save. With Eric and Millie it was about how to discipline the kids. With Dave and Sandra, it was about his drinking. With Mike and Taisha, it was about her wanting to stop working and be a [...]

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